Diamond Engagement RingHow Do You Pick the Perfect Engagement Ring?

It's the biggest choice of your life -- besides, of course, choosing to get married in the first place!  So, how do you find an engagement ring that shows your special someone just how you feel AND make sure that she loves it, too?

You could opt for an "engagement setting", which is a temporary setting that your diamond sits in so that you have something to propose with.  After she says "yes", both of you can head to the jewelry store and pick out a permanent setting together.  That way, you're guaranteed to wind up with something that she loves!

But what if you want to do everything yourself?  How do you pick the perfect engagement ring?

1.  Look at her existing jewelry

Taking a quick spin through her jewelry box when she's not looking will give you some big clues as to what kind of engagement ring she's looking for.  For example, you'll find out whether she prefers white gold, yellow gold, or rose gold.  You'll also get to see if she prefers traditional jewelry designs or pieces that are more modern.

Taking her existing jewelry into account is especially important if there are certain pieces she wears every day -- like the gold bracelet her parents gave her or the silver necklace she won't go anywhere without.  After all, her new engagement ring will have to complement them!

2.  Find a jeweler that can be your "partner in crime"

A smaller store is much more likely to work with you from start to finish than a big chain is.  They'll also be happy to answer any questions you may have -- no matter how many of them you've got!  A good jewelry store will even help you create a custom engagement ring if you want something that's totally unique.

3.  Consider her fingers

Does the love of your life have short fingers?  If so, a wide band will make them look shorter.  Or, does she have long, skinny fingers?  If so, a "long" diamond (like an oval or a pear) will make them look even longer.

4.  Opt for clarity and color

Since you budget probably won't allow you to buy the biggest, most flawless diamond in the store, you need to choose wisely.  That means you've got to opt on the side of clarity and color!  After all, a bunch of carats aren't nearly as exciting if the diamond itself is cloudy or full of flaws.  Remember, true engagement ring success means having everyone "ooh" and "ahh" whenever she shows it off!

Diamond Buying Guide

Diamond Buying GuideDiamond grading is subjective. The location of inclusions can mean that not all diamonds with the same grade are the same. The same quantity and size of inclusions on 2 diamonds with the same VS grade can look drastically different because of their location, and their orientation to the desired setting.

The 4 C’s of Diamond Buying according to the GIA: carat, cut, color and clarity


A diamonds size is measured in Carat Weight. Each diamond carat is also equal to 100 points. For example, a diamond that is a ½ carat can also be referred to as a 50 point diamond.


The cut of the diamond is also referred to as the shape. Shapes include Round Brilliant, Princess Cut, Emerald Cut, Marquise Cut, Oval Cut, Radiant Cut, Pear Shape, Heart shaped and Assher Cut. When a diamond is cut to good proportions, light is refracted from one facet to another, then dispersed through the top of the diamond. A well cut diamond – regardless of its shape –, sparkles, has more fire, and offers the greatest brilliance.


Color is the natural body color visible in a diamond and is the one C determined completely by nature, not man. As a rule, the closer a diamond is to colorless, the more valuable and beautiful it is. Diamond colors appear in a range from D to Z. Color grades D, E and F are considered colorless, making them rare;. grades G, H and I are near colorless; and grades J down are going to have a considerable amount of color. 


Clarity is an indication of a diamond's purity. When a rough stone is extracted from carbon, deep beneath the earth, tiny traces of natural elements are almost always trapped inside. These elements are called inclusions, though sometimes they are referred to as birthmarks, because they are formed naturally and are unique to each stone. Clarity ranges from flawless (FL); internally flawless (IF); very, very slightly included (VVS1-VVS2); very slightly included (VS1-VS2); slightly included (SI1-SI3); and included (I1-I3)


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